Thursday, February 4, 2010
Day 4
In relationship to our discussion on perceptions, how would you like people to perceive you? Based on your answer, what are things you do to create this perceptions? Are there things that you could do in your life that would create your wanted perception even better? Lastly, if someone got up at your funeral (many years from now) and started off their eulogy with the statement: the perception of ____ was truly created because______________ what would come next.
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I would like people to perceive me as generous and caring. The things i do to create this perception is help others when needed. I also try to be nice to everyone no matter what their personality is. Im nice to everyone almost all the time. There are probably more things i could do to make this perception more clear. I could do this by being nice all the time although i doubt thatwould happen cause nobody is perfect. "The perception of MEGAN was truly created because... she was always nice to others and always gave a lending hand.
I would like people to perceive me as a nice person. I usually don't judge people until i get to know them a little bit some I tend to be nice to everyone when I meet them. I also try to help out people if they need it. Maybe if I;m just a nice guy to the rest of the people I cross paths with people will remember me that way. If someone were to get up at my funeral hopefully the would say; the perception of andy was truly created because of his generousity and kindness to others.
I would like people to perceive me as kind, fun, generous, and smart.Things I could do to create these perceptions would be not to judge people on the spot, and make sure that i stay on track with good friends and not to get into any trouble. also being nice to everybody i meet, to not create enemies. I think i'm on the road to the perceptions I want. I am nice to everybody i meet and i try really hard to be intelligent and fun. I think if someone were to talk about their perception of me at my funeral, it would be that i spent my life caring about people and trying hard in school while having fun. I think peoples perception of me now would mostly be that I am quiet but if they got to know me, I think their perception of me would be close to where i want it to be.
i would like to perseved as a friendly person. and i do baleve i am, i never fully judge people until i get to no them better and ill give anyone a chance to be my friend. usually i just do what seems right to me witch is being friendly in general. i also like helping people out or just saying hi. i guess if i wanted to be praceved as more friendly i would just do more friendly things. like hold dors open for the masses and help old peopled across the street haha or mabey just help people evan more or give complements. i think the thing in the end might say something like..... the perception of scott was truly created because of his kindness to others.
I would like people to perceive me as a nice and caring person. To do this, i would have to be the nicest i can be to everyone and try to be understanding of people. Instead of constantly talking about myself, I could ask people how they are and about their day. This will help people to perceive me as a nice and caring person. Most of the time I am this way, so hopefully I am on the right path. At my funeral, I hope someone will stand up and say, "The perception of Jane was truly created because she was always the nicest she could be to everyone and always cared about everyone.
I think that people should see me as a good person and sometimes a funny one. I create this vision because I'm a good student. I also do not do drugs or anything like that.(not saying people that do those things are bad) To make my perception better I could be more nice. Niceness is a good part in being good. I could also open up to more people and show them my funny side. Most of the time I don't open up is because I don't like presure of groups. If I were to die people would say, the perception of Mikail was made by how he acted around people and how he was feeling.
I truley care about what others think of me. I want them to respect me, care for me, and be real around me. I hope that others perceive me as someone they can confide in and who they can always trust. In order for this to happen, I need to be myself around everyone and treat others with the utmost respect. At my funeral, I would hope that kind words will be spoken. Some like "The perception of Sam was truely created because she was always polite and down to earth. She always treated me well and I will miss her."
^ that was Sam Taranek's blog. oops.
I would like people to perceive me as a caring and is always there for you. The things i do to creat this perception is by letting people know i am always here for them not matter what or when. I show people that i care about them. If someone got up at my funeral i think they would say the perception os Teddie was truley created becasue she was a caring, thoughful, and always went for what she believe in, and was always there for you when you needed it.
Perceptions are caused by how you react with people and how they see you as. I would want people to perceive me as a nice, friendly, and caring person. The way I act around people is the way they are going to judge me. If I treat people well then they are going to see me as a nice person. If I end up treating people bad, then there going to see me as a mean person that they don't want to be friends with. Things I could do in my life that would make better perceptions is that I could help people often and be more outgoing and friendly to everyone. You don't always have to be friends with everyone, but its always a good idea to be friendly with everyone. At my funeral, I would want people to say nice things about me. I would want them to remember me for good things. The perception of Lauren was truly created because she was always friendly, caring, and kind to other people.
I would like people to perceive me as a nice, caring, smart and fun person to be around. The things that I do to create this perception is talk to every one, help them with there homework if they get stuck, and do not judge people before I get to know them. There are things in my life that I could do to make my perceptions better. I could be more outgoing. I should try harder to not be so shy. Plus, I could be more helpful and nicer to people when they are struggling with homework or anything they need help with. "The perception of Marie was truley created because she always was helping others, always cracking jokes, and was very fun to be around. She was a nice person to know."
I know that the cookie cutter answer to this question is that "I want people to perceive me as a kind person", well I want people to perceive me, as me! I mean yeah, I want people to think of me as loving and kind, but I want people to accept me for who I am! I want people to think later on down the road that I was different, in a good way. I want people to say, "Oh that's the girl that never talked poorly about someone", or "She was the one that never went with the flow, she was the one that stuck true to who she was". I'm really quiet in class, and I don't usually say a lot, but that's not because I'm arrogant, or egocentric. I'm quiet because I am more of a listener than a talker. I mean, have you ever wondered why you have two ears and one mouth? Personally, I don't want a funeral, funeral homes scare me and remind me of what we've all lost, why should we dwell on the dead when we have the living to look forward to? But, if someone was to give a eulogy about me when I pass, I would like them to accentuate on the fact that I was always true to who I was, and that I never conformed to the "popular" things because "everyone else was doing it".
i would love people to perceive me as funny, out going and easy to talk to.the things i do to creat this perception is i help people do what they need done, then i also make some funny jokes that are proby not all appropiate but i try my best. there are more things i could do to make this perception more clear. but i could try being nice like al the time but hey peoplehave some bad days." the perception of daid was truly created because he was always out going therefore every one and helping.
I would like people to view me as outgoing, fun to be around and caring. To create these perceptions, I just act myself. I'm really loud and not affraid to talk to new people, I don't like to sit around much so I'm always on the go and doing something fun and I'm easy to talk to if you ever need to get something off your chest. I don't think that there is anything that I can do to make my wanted perception even better because I'm always myself. I'm not going to change just to make people like me more, if you don't like who I truly am then that sucks for you. If someone got up at my funeral and started off their eulogy, I would want it to be: "The perception of Caitlin was truly created because she was always herself. She never held back what was on her mind and she was always straight forward with everyone. You could easily understand what she was like because she always let loose and showed her true colors."
I would like people to percieve me as nice, responsible, and a good friend. I always try to be nice to people and help them in any way i can. Most of the time if someone asks me for a favor, i rarely say no. To be responsible, i try to do what im told all the time. I like for all of my friends to like me so i never do anything behind their backs(unless its nice). Also, i dont tell my friends secrets, so they know they can trust me. I dont think there is really anything else i could do to have people percieve me the was i want. The things i do, i do them because i want people to think of me positively. Many years from now, when i die, i want someone at my funeral to say the perception of Jessica was truley created because she is genuinely a nice person and i knew that i could alway count on her to do something for me.
Perception is what molds me as a person and how people interpret my character. i would like people to perceive me as a person that they can just hangout with, whether people see me that way is up to them. thing i do to try to create this is talk to a diverse amount of people even if they are not in my social group. something i could do to enhance this perception is not talk to much, the reason is if i talk to much they would eventually get annoyed. When i die i would hope that my friends would come up to the podium saying that i was a happy-go-lucky person who knew when to shut his mouth. also i would hope that they would talk about the good times we had together and see me as a person that was fun to be around. this is how i would hope to think people perceive me now and in the future.
I would like people to perceive me as respectful and hardworking. The things i do to create these are respecting myself and others. Also i respect there stuff and a little about that they percieve others as. Also if something needs done i will do my best to get it done. I would try to be more helpful to show more that i am hardowrking or do something that requires a great amount of labor. Also i would try to Respect others outlooks on things rather then just my own. The perception of Steven was truly created because he was a respectful hardworking individual and was willing to try anything.
I want people to perceive me as a friendly, nice, caring person who's fun to be around. To create this perception, i treat people the way i would want to be treated by being friendly towards everyone. To better improve the way people look at me, i could expand my range of who i talk to and hang out with so that everyone truely sees the true me. At my funeral, i would want them to (and hope that they)say that their perception of me came to be because i was always friendly and caring, and willing to help.
I want to be perceived as a not so normal girl. I don't go along with the flow and do what I want most of the time. I'm not normal and I'm not average. I want people to know that I don't give up very easily and I try to stay as strong as I possibly can even in the worst situation. I don't think performing a certain act could really show who I am. I think living my life the way I choose to and being who I want to be is good enough for someone to see who I am. My perception isn't always easy to understand but if you look close enough and are willing to see it then I don't think it's impossible to get. The perception of Harley was truly created because she stayed true to you she was and she didn't live anyone's life but her own. She tried to be as free as she could and always stayed strong.
I actually have no clue how I'd want people to perceive me. The best answer I can give to that is for them to perceive me how ever I actually am towards them, and not to just make assumptions. Of course I would like people to think of me as nice, kind, caring, understanding, and funny. The most I could ask for from some one who hasn't gotten to know me and those things about me, is that they know me as a good person. I try to be as nice as I can to people and help anyone in anyway, but many people already seem to have me pegged as a bed person. I'm not really sure how I can change this preconceived perception of me. Finally if some one did come to my funeral to say something about me, I hope they would say that I had a positive influence in their life and I will stay a good and caring person in their memories of me.
I have always wanted other people to perceive me as a fun, caring, and open minded kind of person whom they could trust to never deceive them. I strive to be unique, to always listen, to never judge, and to just be there for people when they need someone. But, of course there is a minor speed bump in my quest for these perceptions..I can be shy. Not all the time but lots of the time. I believe if I could overcome my habit of being reserved and timid then I could better perceive myself as those things.
I would most definitely want someone someday at my funeral to say, "The perception of Candace was truly created because no matter what Candace cared and was willing to help anyone and she was truly unique in her own Candace way."
I think one of the most important things I would like people to perceive me as is a smart man that works hard. I think that working hard is one of the most important qualities you can have, I would also like to looked at as gernerous and nice. Most of the time I work as hard as I can and do it to the best so people look at me like this. ne thing that I can do to make more people think this is talk more because I might be a nice kid but I dont talk much around older people I dont know. If someone was to talk about me at a funeral I think they would talk about what I would have wanted them to because I think I did good job at making people percieve that. they would say the perception of Mitch was truly created because he was very polite and worked to do the besat at waht he did. One problem I do have is that I am really quick to judge someone but normally its not bad I just percieve something very quickly. Normally its a positive judgement and it will stay like that until they do something to prove that I should trust them or like them anymore. This is how I believe I should be perceived and that how I perceive other people.
I hope people perceive me as kind, laid back, and funny. To acheive this, I am nice to all people regaurdless of rumors or quarrels with friends. I try to be nice to everyone until they give me a reason not to be. I used to worry so much about little things in life but I have come to realize some things aren't worth getting worked up over. At the same time, it bugs me when people are obnoxious for no reason, thus I try to remain chill. I love making people laugh and I do this by dishing out knee slappers when appropriate. I've learned there is a time and a place. At my funeral, a bystander will say, "The perception of C-Mac was truly created because of his joy in putting a smile on all of our faces by making us laugh".
I dont want to choose for other people what to think about me. It shouldnt be up to me. I could never choose just a few characteristics i would like everyone to percieve me by. Id rather have different opinions from everybody, and a variety of things i can be known for. I view myself as a compassionate, light hearted and a very scatterbrained girl most of the time. I always feel really bad for people when theyre sad and take it upon myself to fix things. My attitude is usually carefree but im always forgetting something or getting distracted.this is my perception of myself. i hope at my funeral my eulogy statement will not look like the example provided. When i die, id rather everyone share different perceptions of me rather than choose one dominant one. Your perception is your reality. i know my personality, thoughts and ideas and that is my reality but whether or not you see me as i view myself doesnt affect my reality.
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